When your child comes home and informs you that he or she wants to play a sport like soccer, it can be great. Not only will this mean that there might be some extra free time in your day when you aren’t responsible for making sure your child is entertained, but it also means they will be starting one of the most valuable experiences of their life. So many things can be learned from joining in on team sports, like strategy, working together with others toward a common goal, organization and how to create lasting friendships.
Of course you will want your kid to have fun and be encouraged to keep going with the sport and there are a few things you can do to help with that. The first thing to keep in mind is that you want to be supportive, but not overbearing. Go to the games and practices that you are able to attend, but also be aware of how your child is reacting to your presence there. It may become obvious that you are unintentionally distracting them because they are concerned about what you’ll think of them; don’t take it personally, just let them have some practices where they can concentrate on what they’re doing.
Also, be sure to keep a level head about the game as well as their performance in it. Letting your child or their friends see you yelling and swearing at a ref or at the team in general for a bad play will not help anybody.
The most important thing is to try to keep things regarding the sport fun. A parent, coach or other involved adult should not ever be allowed to yell at or demean the children for mistakes that they make during the course of the game, nor should they ever insult or otherwise embarrass them. If they don’t seem to be doing a move properly, the best thing to do is take them aside and demonstrate how it’s done, maybe explain to them why it’s done that way and so on.
Above all, make sure that all the criticism given is done in a positive and constructive way with an attitude of teaching, whenever you or anyone else is helping your child with their techniques. Kids generally learn pretty fast, so focus on teaching rather harsh public corrections.
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